DATES- Tips to a great date.
Dates are the bread and butter of courtship. You can "hang out" with a girl all you want, but until you actually buckle down and take her on a date, she won't see you as serious. Dates are a form of communication, as actions speak louder than words, the experiences you form with her will be important to how she perceives you for a future relationship. Through my experiences with going on dates, I have found a few things to be very useful in crafting a first class experience for any girl.
Now I understand that every girl has different interests and a different style. So the things I am going to suggest are more about making what ever it is you decide to do more impressive.
1. Ask her out in person (if possible, absolutely no texting or Facebook!)
- Every girl wants to feel special. By asking her in person you can communicate your intention more clearly and also get a good read on her reaction to being asked out.
2. Arrive on time!
- Even if it means waiting in the hallway for 3 min, make sure you are there at the time you said.
- Too early, and your going to stress her out. Too late and your going to make her mad.
3. Be Clean
- This extends to all aspects of you.
- your car, your clothes, your body, your language, etc...
4. Open her door.
- Open the door to different establishments for her.
- Only open the door getting into the car, when your getting out don't worry about it, she can handle it.
5. When it comes to dinner.
- Less is more, try not to stuff yourself, just order enough food so you know you can finish. This will help you appear sensible, and avoid the image of a pig.
- Treat your waiter with respect!! - she will judge your future behavior based on this small encounter!
- After the waiter brings your meal, ask for the check right away, and pay it. This is so that when she is done you two can just leave rather than sit their and awkwardly watch you pay for the meal.
6. Drive Safely
- Not only do you want to have her home in one piece, but she will be thinking about your temperament as it relates to your driving.
7. After the date is done
- When you drop her off, if you plan on a second date, ask her out right there in the moment. That way you can know when you will see her again. This also helps to communicate your interest in her and show your confidence. Even if you don't have the date planned yet just pick a date and time and tell her you will get back to her on the details.
- Send her a thank you text or a note of some kind.
- Less is more, try not to stuff yourself, just order enough food so you know you can finish. This will help you appear sensible, and avoid the image of a pig.
- Treat your waiter with respect!! - she will judge your future behavior based on this small encounter!
- After the waiter brings your meal, ask for the check right away, and pay it. This is so that when she is done you two can just leave rather than sit their and awkwardly watch you pay for the meal.
6. Drive Safely
- Not only do you want to have her home in one piece, but she will be thinking about your temperament as it relates to your driving.
7. After the date is done
- When you drop her off, if you plan on a second date, ask her out right there in the moment. That way you can know when you will see her again. This also helps to communicate your interest in her and show your confidence. Even if you don't have the date planned yet just pick a date and time and tell her you will get back to her on the details.
- Send her a thank you text or a note of some kind.
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